Girly Advice!

Not your usual, how do i get a girl to lick my balls or some shit like that.

Basically, met a girl tonight through a mate, got talking after a couple of bevvies, done the usual swapped numbers had a kiss and cuddle and a riot in the pub etc.

Now ive asked her out on a date, now ive not done the dating bollocks for a good year and a half, in fact ive not normally done any dating at all its usually, get pissed, go back mine or theres for hanky panky and started going out.

Now the thing is this girls its kinda posh, she lives in a posh area of Bolton/Bury, Greenmount for any locales! She's 20.

Now what im asking basically is, what to do for a date, need some suggestions?

Come on help me out its been a while.

 

Ooooo cant go wrong with a nice meal prob safest bet is tiggys, then have a sit down for a chat and know ya film times woooop! Dont wanter under or over do it

 

What type of restaraunt is Tiggys? Thats opposite barracuda bar in Bolton isnt it?

 

Right Dude, you have two ways of playing this.

Firstly you can take her for a meal and be just like every other guy and just be a average Date like Carrie said not over done or under done but very unthoughtful.

But if you like her and want to make a impression. ( im assuming you do, as ya asking in here) Ya have to do somthin fun exciting different. Lets face it any girl can go out for a meal with anyone. you say shes posh. well posh chicks like fun too..

Do you know anythin she is really into? or just be you and spontainious.

Is it a Day time date or evening?

If its Day time how about somthin like paint ballin or alton towers maybe even a trip round the zoo. just put her in a easy public enviroment were the no sign of cheese or threat ya gonna jump on her. trust me it will get its rewards.

If its night time then you can play this so many ways. if ya fancying a meal thats cool! but, do you go out or cook, maybe even go somewere a bit senic and slap on a bit of a picnic with a dissposable bbq on the go. or go to a different kinda resturant like a teppenyaki resturant or somewere it aint just sit eat pay bill and out in five mins.

Personally i think ya should stay away from Cinemas theatres Gigs or anywere ya will be distracted and in the dark. and go for somthin like bowling if ya want to keep it low key. But the is interaction there. Or find somethin goin on by you parties or events.

I dont know you and dont know her, so its tough to advise. But Women aint stupid mate one thing i would advise is just be YOU co the moment you aint comfy neither will she be.

 

Think it maybe off now, she seems proper off. Dont know why i bother. Not cut out for it anymore lol. Ah well.

 

More fish and all that

 

Aye, bit bored of single life now, but also i get annoyed at the slightest hint of annoyance now.

 

just ask u wanna play hun

 

be yourself..

end of day if your not someone who likes posh meals etc then she will see right through you.. by all means go for one first date.. but theres other more fun things you can do...

women seem to love chester zoo and knowlsey safari park...

and for some odd reason blackpool..

oh yeah nice mal wise.. la tasca in trafford centre is amazing.. dark romantic and spanish food.. you can go wrong its just bladdy expensive...

 

Its true women do love Chester Zoo and Knowsley.. Taken a few GF's there (only took them there coz i wanted to go though lol)

To be fair.. do the date but be your self, don't take her to places you wouldnt normally go and don't try to live up to her expectations ... dont make changes to yourself to suit. If she doesn't like it then sod her... not worth your time and effort.

 

Eeeeewwww... Blackpool :|... Soz, just dont see any appeal for there !!

Like they said.. you have to be yourself, if not she will see right thru u, find something in common and build from there...

Was easy with me and ma fella, we both love bikes and rock... Oh and getting pished

And spending weekends surrounded by scary big hairy bikers... lol

 

true to the word


thats the fun with dates... you both have to get along..

 

oooooo id love to go ona date to a zoo or something like an aquarium like that one in chester whats it called? Oh blue planet haha love it there. Erm but would be ace to do paintballing or an assalt course anything that can get ya mucky haha! maybe even a race day but summat fun would have to be the winner! and would deffinately love to go to a themepark or better yet if she aint a biker take her for a ride on the back of you!!!

 

gotta love these threads, lol

my only advice for you mark is to use chloroform :>

 

Do you suggest i punch her in the tits aswell :lol:

 

thats for 2nd date

 

haha, well going round to hers tonight, so can see how much bigger her house is than mine. And then i can punish her rectum for beating me.

 

no means no... unless it means yes...


and allegedly " sory officer but she didnt use the afore mentioned "safety" word.." doesnt pass either...


take her to a bury match..

 

I think she's a Scouse Red, so wouldnt like Bury !

 

You need to chill out!

Big deal she lives in lots of bricks and motar. i will give somthin away, sure the females amoungst us will either agree or jump down my throat but i reckon im right,

Women like to have somthin they THINK they cant. note i said "think". dont keep makin her miss the target or not win but a challenge, is fair game.

Dont go round there being all needy and desperate. Like you are previlaged to be in her mansion. Make her work for it.

Example if she asks you do you work. Dont say im a blah blah,. Say I have only just met you and already ya trying to sus out if i can look after you and keep ya lavish lifestyle your pearants do.
Sounds a bit harsh but it will through her off balance and you will have the upper hand,


THIS ISNT ABOUT YOU MEETING HER EXPECTATIONS, ITS ABOUT HER MEETING YOURS !!!!!!!

Why do you think there so good at the puppy dawg eyes. they perfect incase they get challenged.