an open invitation (smudges bandit thread)

Well im a bit surprised, but it seems ive upset a few of you.
Rather than post on his thread ill simply say this.
If you want to speak to me, tell me im out of order, anything at all please pm me.
Im not looking for an arguement.
But if I dont know what ive done I cant put it right.
Some of you know me.
Many dont.
But im hoping ive just been taken seriously when im taking the piss.
Anyone who wants to pm me will be treated in the strictest confidence.
Dont be shy.
Speak your mind.
Many thanks.
Lee.

 

Maybe someone sees the staff status and doesnt feel like saying anything because of it?
Id rather know what I did wrong.
I wont think any different of someone pulling me (id actually respect it)

 

Id be astonished if it was smudge.
We may not always see eye to eye, but smudge can take a piss take.

 

Mate.
I know if you had a problem you would have just said so on the thread.
Cheers bud.

 

Well apparently I did.

 

Now your pushin it! Sometimes id go as far as to say I can tolerate you......lol

 

No takers?
Come on. Dont be shy.
This is a genuine ask for anyone who felt I was out of order to please just drop me a pm. No hidden agenda. No grudges or hard feelings.
Completely confidential.

 

I wasnt contacted directly.
Someone else was. Being a decent guy he asked me to just be careful how my posts may come across.